This is likely the strongest opinion you'll find on this site or across my socials, so let's just put it out in the open.
I am a romance editor because I love romance.
I don't edit love stories. I don't edit stories with romantic elements. I don't edit romantic tragedies.
I edit romance.
It does not make the above mentioned genres invalid. I just means: I'm not the editor for those manuscripts.
Part of what makes romance so special is the promise it makes to the readers.
When a reader picks up a romance novel, they're not simply investing in two characters. They are investing in hope. They are trusting the author to take them on an emotional journey. And that journey might be messy, heartbreaking, frustrating, complicated, hilarious, swoony, sweet, spicy—or all of the above. But ultimately, it leaves readers believing that love was worth fighting for.
That promise matters.
In fact, I'd argue it's one of the reasons romance remains one of the most beloved and popular genres in publishing.
Readers spend hundreds of pages and hours emotionally investing in these characters. They celebrate every tiny victory. They agonize over every setback. They scream at misunderstandings. They kick their feet during first kisses. They stay up far too late, ignoring all responsibilities, because they need to know if these two idiots in love are finally going to just figure it out.
And after all that emotional investment, readers deserve the payoff they were promised.
That's not limiting. It's not restrictive. Okay, yes, it's formulaic. But it's the very foundation the entire genre is built.
The beauty of romance has never been wondering if love wins. The beauty is discovering how it wins.
Every romance tells that story differently. Every couple earns their ending differently. Every journey is unique.
Romance readers turn pages to discover how these particular characters overcome everything standing in their way.
And it doesn't deserve to be torn down and subjected to definition rewrites when we all know no one is demanding the same thing from mystery, fantasy, thriller, or any other genre.
So, yes. This is absolutely a hill I will die on.
I exclusively edit romance manuscripts that honor the reader promise.
If your story doesn't end in a happily ever after or a happily for now...If it ends in heartbreak, separation, tragedy, sacrifice, or a conclusion that asks the readers to mourn the relationship rather than celebrate it, then it's simply not a project I'm the right editor for.
That doesn't makes those stories less valuable. It doesn't make them less emotional, less literary, less impactful, less meaningful. There absolutely is a large and thriving audience for them.
It just means they're not romance.
And that's okay.
Because romance readers deserve to know that when they place their hearts in an author's hands, they'll get them back whole.
Stitches and all.